Do you want to learn how to manipulate men? Manipulating your man may not be ethical, but it’s something all women have to learn to use at some point. Here’s your complete guide on how to manipulate people.
Learning how to manipulate men and that special man in your life can seem uncomfortable, but if you understand how simple it is, you’ll see how effortless it can be!
Women have been stuck with the ‘weaker gender’ tag since forever.
But that view is heading for a complete makeover these days because women now know how to manipulate men and confuse their men easily!
It’s not the best way to get work done, but you know, a girl’s got to do what a girl’s got to do.
How to manipulate people
How are women manipulating men so easily these days?
Well, you can do that just by playing to your strengths.
No, we’re not talking about the wonderful art of kickboxing or even steroids.
There are far subtler, not to mention easier, ways to manipulate men.
It’s all just a matter to taking things into your hands, and realizing that evolution didn't, after all, work with so much of a vengeance against you!
Here are 10 sneaky ways to manipulate men and the people around you.
#10 Bore him to submission
Keep on talking and don’t stop. Go all out when you try and explain yourself when you want to manipulate men. This works very well, especially at times when you've picked up something really expensive, and your man doesn't approve of it.
Tell him about how the crystal chandelier was just what you needed at home. “I could have always picked up that cheap lamp, with a manual attachment, and some ugly screws that would just disfigure the walls.
But I actually picked up this beautiful chandelier that comes with two thousand cute crystals that illuminate the room so much better. And it also has five different places to fit the bulb, which is just so perfect because I can now arrange the room just the way I've always wanted, now paying special attention to the lighting, you know. There was also the bigger chandelier that was great, but you know, I thought it would be better to pick the one I just picked… it was a bit cheaper…”
#9 “I did it for you!”
Any and every time you do something wrong, just let him know that the sole purpose of doing that was to please him. How were you to know that he wouldn't like the new pink frilly lacy upholstered bed?
Didn't you think that this would turn him on all the more? You tried your best to make him happy, that’s all. “I’m sorry you caught me in bed with a male stripper, I was just trying to learn a few new positions for you”. That obviously won’t go down that well.
#8 Make him prove you wrong
Men hate being told that there’s something that they can’t do, something that’s out of their league. And they absolutely love to prove you wrong. So don’t worry about how to manipulate him here. The trick is, quite simply to tell him! He doesn't want to try that new lavender shirt that you lovingly bought for him?
Just tell him that he may be right, because now that you think of it, he can’t really carry off that color. Or better yet, tell him that your colleague at work does it with so much panache. Lo and behold! The next minute, you’ll find him strutting around in his new shirt, and he may suddenly realize that lavender is the new in-thing!
#7 “You are
my savior”
Okay, you don’t have to repeat the exact words, but let’s face it, men have epic egos. It’s in-built, so rather than complain about it, use flattery to your advantage while manipulating men.
He’s really angry with you for pestering him to come along for that girl-next-door’s wedding? Tell him about how the girl’s mum is always comparing you with her daughter, in a constant attempt to show her off and put you down. Tell your man how badly you wanted to show him off in front of that woman just this once. And to show her how lucky YOU are, to have a guy like HIM. And then see if he still sulks.
And before you know it, you would know how to manipulate men to do your whims and fancies. But hold on, we’re not done with our guide on how to manipulate people and that special man in your life.
Shubham Gupta
